Ask.

Sometimes I remember things that I’ve said to my husband when we were dating and I really want to go back to those times and kick myself. I can’t really get mad at my old me because I really didn’t know better, but if someone now even dares to tell me the things I told … More Ask.

Not Your Place

“You are not the mother” Can you even count how many times you heard that phrase? So much revolves around a simple phrase like that. One of the consequences of it is that for most of us….. there isn’t a place of power that we can rely on when it comes to making any decision … More Not Your Place

TOXIC 101

All throughout my life I’ve had many good relationships and some bad ones. As an extrovert, I always found a way of being friendly to people and have unconditional acceptance for anyone. I would become friends with whoever was around me and my motto was to give everyone a fair chance, even if they had a specific … More TOXIC 101

Storms

Is very easy to let go of God when things are going our way…. yes, we have difficulties as stepmoms and we probably are constantly praying because of that. But for our husband or biomom things are not as difficult (every single moment of the day) and sometimes when things go well is easy for either … More Storms

Mother’s Day

  I don’t intent to underestimate everything mother’s do for their children with this post. Just acknowledge all of the work that step-moms do in order to appreciate them on this day… because for most step-moms this is the worst day of the year. All mothers are important. The biomoms and the bonus moms. And … More Mother’s Day

Feelings

Our words have so much power over us and our circumstances. It seems crazy but whatever we tell ourselves (or say out-loud) we actually end up believing or even causing it to happen (even if it wasn’t suppose to). According to Cognitive Behavioral Approaches (psychology stuff…) our thoughts, feelings and behaviors interact together constantly. This … More Feelings